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I am a devoted parent of two and a loving husband:,

my wife says" Im mean"
 and her mother says "Im mean"

I dont agree never the less we have been happily married for 10 years. This year seem to be the test more than others, for the past 2 years I have not worked steadily. I am a stay at home dad with 6 month old and a 5 year old sons. My wife works full time in corporate America. In the past we both worked or worked together in my own business.   Heres My concern.

Im concerned with her health i.e.. (weight gain/memory loss/loss of sex drive/loss of interest) I asked her to get a appointment and talk to her Dr. that was last week still no appointment ? What else can I do?

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